tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-48487260551402406352024-03-12T22:27:30.691-04:00All of Wea blog about the repatriation of one Trini, and the expatriation of her family from the concrete mash up of Brooklyn to the sunbaked proud island of Trinidad. We'll share our experiences and observations along the way, and hope our blended perspectives can bring some unique (or, at least, entertaining) insights.Victoria Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14539043289332177270noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-41569202166610386782009-01-02T10:50:00.012-05:002009-01-02T11:14:37.793-05:00Pepper Sauce taste off, Best & WorstI couldn't close this blog without doing one final pepper sauce taste off, here are the absolute best and worst of all time.<br />First, the <span style="font-weight:bold;">worst</span>:<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SV45M2gHi5I/AAAAAAAAAdA/nGSEfjjaks8/s1600-h/worst.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 184px; height: 200px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SV45M2gHi5I/AAAAAAAAAdA/nGSEfjjaks8/s200/worst.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5286725905530981266" /></a><br />Irene's, a store-bought brand that had a promising modest label and good color on the shelf. But this one ranks worst because it commits the cardinal sin of any self-respecting pepper sauce: it's <span style="font-style:italic;">sweet</span>. There's no point in going over the other qualities, it's a sugary disgrace. <span style="font-weight:bold;">score: 1</span><br /><br />And, finally, the <span style="font-weight:bold;">best</span>:<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SV461IGaqDI/AAAAAAAAAdI/8kkIims5DKQ/s1600-h/best.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 178px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SV461IGaqDI/AAAAAAAAAdI/8kkIims5DKQ/s200/best.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5286727696961415218" /></a><br />The original <span style="font-style:italic;">mother-in-law</span> recipe, because it's made by my mother-in-law. No point in showing the bottle because it has no label, and all the magic comes from her anyway. Peppers grown in her own garden, ingredients blended in her own kitchen, no two bottles the same but always hot and full of flavor. You can't buy it, but if you ever come over to our house we'll give you a sample. <span style="font-weight:bold;">score: 11</span> (out of 10)Grey Thornberryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17195846363747591662noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-29491194219270744732008-12-30T15:16:00.004-05:002008-12-30T15:40:36.453-05:00farewell postour time here is finally drawing to an end, after 5 months I'd be lying if I said I wasn't anxious to return and get back to the business of living in (for us, anyway) the real world. Thanks to everyone who followed and commented on this blog, a few parting shots for the road:<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SVqG2FrnEBI/AAAAAAAAAcg/lXVqj_RToZo/s1600-h/1.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 146px; height: 200px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SVqG2FrnEBI/AAAAAAAAAcg/lXVqj_RToZo/s200/1.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5285685376468848658" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SVqHBNyKTrI/AAAAAAAAAco/OprsW4AcSz4/s1600-h/2.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 150px; height: 200px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SVqHBNyKTrI/AAAAAAAAAco/OprsW4AcSz4/s200/2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5285685567622368946" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SVqHIWP7qnI/AAAAAAAAAcw/uyvGE9JpO-I/s1600-h/3.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 150px; height: 200px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SVqHIWP7qnI/AAAAAAAAAcw/uyvGE9JpO-I/s200/3.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5285685690153806450" /></a>Grey Thornberryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17195846363747591662noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-92220888339567350062008-12-21T09:27:00.004-05:002008-12-23T08:16:10.206-05:00who knew?Trinidad has earthquakes? We got a bit of surprise this morning, thought it might be a heavy truck or something going by, then it intensified. We grabbed Helen and hightailed out of the building, where our neighbors were quickly gathering, sleepy-eyed and bemused. 4.3 on the Richter, no damage, no aftershocks (so far).<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SU5T_dM0wVI/AAAAAAAAAcY/yXMFPGIszek/s1600-h/Picture-2.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 199px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SU5T_dM0wVI/AAAAAAAAAcY/yXMFPGIszek/s200/Picture-2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5282251762587451730" /></a>Grey Thornberryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17195846363747591662noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-31231754683404527322008-11-18T10:45:00.009-05:002008-11-18T14:15:18.694-05:00little tobagoas part of our second trip to Tobago we took a hiking tour of <span style="font-style:italic;">Little Tobago</span>, a small island off the northeastern tip. A protected bird sanctuary, it was just an incredible place, isolated wild and beautiful.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SSLnJWf-UHI/AAAAAAAAAXg/sOQLJjJrz-Y/s1600-h/IMG_2543.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SSLnJWf-UHI/AAAAAAAAAXg/sOQLJjJrz-Y/s200/IMG_2543.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5270028661821427826" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SSLn_rK62WI/AAAAAAAAAYA/P1pIKc4l7dA/s1600-h/IMG_2559.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 152px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SSLn_rK62WI/AAAAAAAAAYA/P1pIKc4l7dA/s200/IMG_2559.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5270029595083200866" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SSLnJ1srG-I/AAAAAAAAAXw/r64KZmFLQ5o/s1600-h/IMG_2556.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 153px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SSLnJ1srG-I/AAAAAAAAAXw/r64KZmFLQ5o/s200/IMG_2556.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5270028670196194274" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SSLnJ1OO_lI/AAAAAAAAAXo/Jzw4TlY5TAg/s1600-h/IMG_2546.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SSLnJ1OO_lI/AAAAAAAAAXo/Jzw4TlY5TAg/s200/IMG_2546.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5270028670068522578" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SSLoqprvXII/AAAAAAAAAYI/GpIfZgMqgEI/s1600-h/IMG_2539.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 154px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SSLoqprvXII/AAAAAAAAAYI/GpIfZgMqgEI/s200/IMG_2539.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5270030333418364034" /></a>Grey Thornberryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17195846363747591662noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-979724999189946632008-11-11T06:49:00.003-05:002008-11-11T06:54:27.079-05:00helen's rainbow<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SRlyWufLNII/AAAAAAAAAXE/wid_MbOLGaM/s1600-h/helen%27srainbow.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 144px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SRlyWufLNII/AAAAAAAAAXE/wid_MbOLGaM/s200/helen%27srainbow.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5267366973947982978" /></a><br />one of the advantages of being in Trinidad during rainy season is the incredible rainbows. A photo can't begin to do justice to this horizon-spanning double layered beauty, with a 3/4 moon trapped inside, but at least you can see how it springs right out of helen-pot-o-gold's headGrey Thornberryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17195846363747591662noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-20368662598239153382008-11-06T06:42:00.004-05:002008-11-06T14:26:05.319-05:00Yoko is a boy!!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_j6ttY4rypLw/SRLb0bgrGkI/AAAAAAAAAB4/OHHG10RgvYc/s1600-h/yoko.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 152px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_j6ttY4rypLw/SRLb0bgrGkI/AAAAAAAAAB4/OHHG10RgvYc/s200/yoko.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5265512608134011458" /></a><br />Full confession time: I'm a huge liar, or at least a dissembler of the truth. For the six of you who read my I'm Pregnant post earlier in October, remember me writing that I was 51/49 for a boy? What rubbish! Yesterday when the ultrasound technician wielded her magic wand and revealed that the fetus did in fact have a 'piggy' (her word people, and she said it twice), I screamed and writhed and clapped with pleasure. Clearly the reaction of someone who had been hoping at minimum 75/25 for a boy. And Grey was pretty darn excited, too, but he had never hedged his bets publicly like I did. He quite openly dreaded being outnumbered in a house of women (as if they still won't be).<br /><br />So Yoko is a boy baby. Helen Dekker decided a few weeks ago that the fetus is to be called Yoko, and that's been the in-house nickname. It's going nowhere near the birth certificate, but it's cute for now. Watch us call that poor child Yoko until he's ready to start school. <br /><br />So that's the latest news. One of each and we're done adding to the population of the world.<br /><br />Love from all of we.Victoria Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14539043289332177270noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-87826531211945992272008-10-29T07:58:00.013-04:002008-10-30T14:52:10.392-04:00Divali<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SQhVeP60O-I/AAAAAAAAAVg/taXIGYbW524/s1600-h/krishna.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 164px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SQhVeP60O-I/AAAAAAAAAVg/taXIGYbW524/s200/krishna.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5262550142740085730" /></a>yesterday was the Indian holiday Divali, the festival of lights. We took Helen out (past her bedtime, hence the pajamas) to a Hindu centric neighborhood and toured the decorated temples, watched the lighting of the deyas, and even played around with some fireworks. She'll be missing both Halloween and Thanksgiving this year, so she needed her holiday fix.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SQhVdk-bqxI/AAAAAAAAAVY/OATfRPgU7xc/s1600-h/hanumantemple.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SQhVdk-bqxI/AAAAAAAAAVY/OATfRPgU7xc/s200/hanumantemple.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5262550131212528402" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SQhVeatqOOI/AAAAAAAAAVo/Prsc1Nmxoc0/s1600-h/temple.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 160px; height: 200px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SQhVeatqOOI/AAAAAAAAAVo/Prsc1Nmxoc0/s200/temple.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5262550145637693666" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SQhVE9rgQEI/AAAAAAAAAVQ/kQD4_He0Shs/s1600-h/street.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 148px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SQhVE9rgQEI/AAAAAAAAAVQ/kQD4_He0Shs/s200/street.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5262549708347293762" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SQhVeRqWcHI/AAAAAAAAAVw/qLWZTxHY7EE/s1600-h/sparkler.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 154px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SQhVeRqWcHI/AAAAAAAAAVw/qLWZTxHY7EE/s200/sparkler.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5262550143207895154" /></a>Grey Thornberryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17195846363747591662noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-13298356801384955392008-10-26T07:57:00.009-04:002008-10-26T08:46:33.890-04:00Asa Wright Nature Center<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SQRc3ih3dCI/AAAAAAAAAUY/EwomN7AoxdQ/s1600-h/trail.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 153px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SQRc3ih3dCI/AAAAAAAAAUY/EwomN7AoxdQ/s200/trail.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5261432373906994210" /></a>we took a brief tour of the center yesterday, exploring the winding trails and enjoying the almost-rainforest scenery, spotting wildlife where we got the chance. Highlights included the biggest ant I'd ever seen, the smallest praying mantis, a termite snack (they don't taste like carrots, fyi), birds of all size and color and fresh water springs. Definitely a place to return for a longer visit and the full tour.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SQRdfk-PhHI/AAAAAAAAAUo/cL-gRM6zmc0/s1600-h/soldierant.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 143px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SQRdfk-PhHI/AAAAAAAAAUo/cL-gRM6zmc0/s200/soldierant.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5261433061757650034" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SQRdp_ieBUI/AAAAAAAAAUw/U9ppV9mt6IY/s1600-h/tinymantis.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 151px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SQRdp_ieBUI/AAAAAAAAAUw/U9ppV9mt6IY/s200/tinymantis.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5261433240687609154" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SQRdIXIupYI/AAAAAAAAAUg/NogE6w5WPdw/s1600-h/asawright.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 141px; height: 200px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SQRdIXIupYI/AAAAAAAAAUg/NogE6w5WPdw/s200/asawright.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5261432662906545538" /></a>Grey Thornberryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17195846363747591662noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-46349348755573661302008-10-19T15:22:00.007-04:002008-10-19T15:42:28.865-04:00Tobago<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SPuJS2R2BkI/AAAAAAAAATg/Cyk7t5reIxk/s1600-h/Tobago.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SPuJS2R2BkI/AAAAAAAAATg/Cyk7t5reIxk/s200/Tobago.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5258947946786195010" /></a><br />We just got back from a long weekend in <span style="font-weight:bold;">Tobago</span>, Trinidad's beautiful sister island. The weather and beaches were perfect, the curry crab'n dumpling a bit of a challenge, and I got stung by jellyfish . . . but the highlight was a 3 hour glass bottom boatride. We stopped for snorkeling over the coral reefs, and made another stop at <span style="font-weight:bold;">Nylon Pool</span>, a sandbar far offshore that creates a shallow swimming area surrounded by breaking waves (reputed to have strong mojo when it comes to . . . <span style="font-style:italic;">mojo</span>).<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SPuNGGHiehI/AAAAAAAAATo/jyooUAThWVk/s1600-h/TobagoGirls.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SPuNGGHiehI/AAAAAAAAATo/jyooUAThWVk/s200/TobagoGirls.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5258952125746149906" /></a>Grey Thornberryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17195846363747591662noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-81145358649211967642008-10-13T13:23:00.002-04:002008-10-13T13:35:36.067-04:00And then there were four.Now I'll know for sure how many people actually check in on this blog because I think what I'm about to post should at least elicit some comments, please? That's been the hardest part about writing - not knowing if anyone reads these little rants. But here's the big news: <span style="font-weight:bold;">I'm 12 weeks pregnant with number two!</span> Some of you have known this for various amounts of time, but this is the public announcement of Thornberry Fetus Two. We're thrilled and excited and Helen Dekker loves to rub my burgeoning belly, but there have been bumps not had the first time around. First trimesters and Caribbean heat do not mix at all, at all. For HD I had the luxury of a mild UK autumn in the Midlands with long country rambles over meadows and vales, for real. This time it has been non-stop heat wave, ninety degree plus weather action. Not nice at all. But then, I haven't had to work too hard and Grey has been awesome, and the townhouse is air conditioned. For a while there I was convinced that I was having twins, but this morning, the lovely and gracious Dr. Haqq (pronounced Hack, I kid you not) announced that there was only one little heartbeat and that it was healthy and strong. Now, I'm convinced it's a boy because the experience has been so very different from carrying Helen. <br />Anyhow, you'll be the first to know in a few weeks when we do the gender scan. <br /><br />Love from all of we.Victoria Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14539043289332177270noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-71611692514604725462008-10-10T16:11:00.003-04:002008-10-10T16:39:35.878-04:00AmericaWe have just returned from a 6-day jaunt to Tampa, FL. That's the big cheat. After considering which other island to visit in honor of Grey's 40th and deciding that only Cuba would do for any real difference, and realizing that it's very illegal for Americans to travel to Cuba, we decided to go visit the extended Thornberry clan (Grey's brothers, mother, niece, nephew and sister-in-law) in Florida. <br /><br />All in all, we didn't have a bad time. Our trip mostly consisted of eating. Steak was a priority for me, and I consumed a variety of cuts including fillet, ribeye, and Delmonico. Grey's family has an affinity for the faster foods in life so we also had pizza from Dominos and Pizza Hut (alas, no Franny's in Tampa), and burgers from FiveGuys (way better than any of the more junky outlets at least), Dairy Queen (for real), oh and Chillis at Miami airport, both ways. We are detoxing big time for this indulgence. <br /><br />I also got to go to Target, where pushing that big old red shopping cart was therapy for me. I didn't buy that much, but man I cruised up and down every last single aisle, marveling at the abundance of well, things for sale - little Halloween things and early Christmas things, and Thanksgiving turkey things. Helen couldn't believe how much candy there was and that she could try out all the toys without fear of reprimand (Trini shop clerks don't like the children to touch the toys on display, and you know we touch every single toy until they tell us to stop. but, none of that in Target).<br />Grey I think was in kind of shock for most of the trip. There's the whole turning 40 deal (which he's actually pretty thrilled by), and just that Tampa exists and it's where he spent a chunk of his life and now he's in Trindad for a spell, and it just sure does seem like New York is fast claiming its dominance as the place where we belong. <br /><br />Helen had the best time. Her two uncles doted on her and she loved her Uncle Riley's house on the river and the fact that she was guaranteed to see snakes and frogs and alligators in his backyard, and turtles and fish in the front. He has ponds and water features and his house is on the Hillsborough river and from his dock one can find a kind of tranquility I have yet to find in Trinidad. Uncle Riley also has several collections: about a thousand turtle shells, minerals some of which glow florescent under black lights, chilli peppers real, plastic and of other you'd never suspect materials, and something else I forget but I'm sure Helen can remind me, maybe the alligator-shaped letter openers? How many of one thing does one have to have before it's a collection?<br /><br />We had a good time, but it's good to be home again. Tonight we're having fresh fish and a green salad. <br /><br />Love from all of we.Victoria Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14539043289332177270noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-66962447854319722232008-10-01T19:30:00.003-04:002008-10-02T06:05:22.047-04:00Cheaters!So we're about to cheat on our Trinidad adventure, and I'm not revealing how until it's all over. How come no one told me that keeping up with a blog is so hard? Mentally, I'm writing new posts all the time - about strange Trinis, the baby girl, the heat, my new hairdo and how unsuitable ten pounds of braids are for the heat, but this is all mental. I've committed nothing to screen for a whole month and this is not for lack of happenings down here. <br />I'll make a vow then - to be a better blogger when our little adventure comes to an end. We're away from our computers until Thursday October 8, and upon our return I'll reveal where we were, share some news, and blog about life in never-dull Trinidad an-a-bagel (as Helen call this place).<br />Oh, oh, oh, wish Grey Happy Birthday! His 40th (!) is on Saturday October 4th.<br /><br />Love from all of we.Victoria Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14539043289332177270noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-79888287107488937982008-09-24T14:04:00.003-04:002008-09-24T14:10:33.044-04:00Emperor Park Zoo<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SNqCPzQpuKI/AAAAAAAAAS8/8LBzQkmHu34/s1600-h/emperorparkzoo.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SNqCPzQpuKI/AAAAAAAAAS8/8LBzQkmHu34/s200/emperorparkzoo.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5249651523623434402" /></a>We spent the holiday (today is Republic Day) at the Emperor Park Zoo, a small but well-maintained facility in central Port of Spain. Some of the enclosures were pretty cramped for the animals and the zoo itself is small overall, but it made a nice day out for the family. The ocelots were awesome.Grey Thornberryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17195846363747591662noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-8109038815515233552008-09-23T15:36:00.006-04:002008-09-23T15:45:22.668-04:00shotgun sub<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SNlG5NZQn2I/AAAAAAAAAS0/1UlNME8cxCM/s1600-h/shotgunsub.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SNlG5NZQn2I/AAAAAAAAAS0/1UlNME8cxCM/s200/shotgunsub.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5249304789339119458" /></a>seriously, don't screw around at Subway . . .Grey Thornberryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17195846363747591662noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-86401364758692469952008-09-19T16:56:00.008-04:002008-09-19T17:19:20.111-04:00University of West Indiesa few shots of UWI campus: local flavor architecture, northern range mountains in the background and great, sprawling old trees - not a bad place to study<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SNQTLNpq4vI/AAAAAAAAASc/cec6qrfLvdY/s1600-h/IMG_1742.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SNQTLNpq4vI/AAAAAAAAASc/cec6qrfLvdY/s200/IMG_1742.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5247840549157397234" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SNQTLOcUwdI/AAAAAAAAASk/JjeTpo70E80/s1600-h/IMG_1734.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SNQTLOcUwdI/AAAAAAAAASk/JjeTpo70E80/s200/IMG_1734.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5247840549369856466" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SNQTLZlhamI/AAAAAAAAASs/mS4i2oKFSTI/s1600-h/IMG_1735.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SNQTLZlhamI/AAAAAAAAASs/mS4i2oKFSTI/s200/IMG_1735.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5247840552361224802" /></a>Grey Thornberryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17195846363747591662noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-4219608386952379492008-09-10T20:31:00.009-04:002008-09-12T18:40:24.806-04:00Trini driversthis post has been a long time coming, how do I characterize the drivers and roads of Trinidad to someone who's never been here? Imagine the narrowest road you've ever driven on, barely enough room for a horse and cart, deep gutters on either side, potholes and broken pavement . . . just enough space for a cautious driver to maneuver. Now call that road a highway, give it two lanes of traffic in both directions and park cars along either side. Add pedestrians jumping out to cross at every blind corner.<br />You're beginning to get the picture.<br />Now, make those drivers reckless and aggressive. Don't get me wrong, we're used to that, we love our NYC taxi drivers and their penny-saving swerves, slices and cutoffs. But add a bit of, for lack of a better description, suicidal stupidity to the mix. Cars that swerve without warning, pull into high speed traffic and brake, hop their lane and aim right towards you with no hope of result except head on collision. <br />Not enough? Add blinding sun, freak thunderstorms, and a complete absence of traffic control.<br />Mix and serve . . . you almost have an idea of what driving to the local market for a quick bottle of milk is like. I can honestly say I've never seen worse drivers in my life, absolute white-knuckle lunacy, every day is an adventure.Grey Thornberryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17195846363747591662noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-22319548722176279642008-09-05T12:59:00.004-04:002008-09-05T13:47:48.967-04:00Pretend it's September 01The students I'm working with have arrived and not a minute too soon. Grey and I can now attest that the maximum amount of time one can spend on a tropical island without a sense of purpose before going mad is 30 days (hence you're pretending to read this on 9/1). After the initial Woohoo, we're here! No more Brooklyn for a long, long, time. Yay! And, so long subway, you suck and smell like pee in the summer anyway! And we're off to the beach on a Tuesday morning, and we're in the pool and it's mid-day Wednesday - I'm here to report that after all of that will come, huh, so what do you want to do today? Dunno, what do you want to do? It's amazing, at least it amazes me, how quickly that time came. I thought for sure we'd be here months before any kind of malaise set in, and that by then my students would be here and I'd be too busy with them to notice. But it (boredom, ennui, heat paralysis) arrived and as soon as the students started to come in I felt a huge relief that now I could stir myself and begin to work.<br /><br />This happened once before. In winter 2006 I was in Carriacou researching my mother's side of the family. We were supposed to be there for just under a month and had been anticipating the trip for about two years. Massive mental hype. The actual work consisted of finding surviving relatives from my maternal side and chit-chatting with these octa- and nonagenarians, not especially taxing work and there was plenty of time left over for swimming and exploring the rest of the island. But it turned out that the rest of the island was about the size of Prospect Park with a hill rising in the middle that gave you a scarily water-bound 360 of the rock you were resting on. That's not reassuring to a New Yorker (and guess what, I am a New Yorker, you can't live for eighteen years in a place and not be of it. I've made my peace with that fact in the last few weeks, too).<br /><br />I'll tell you what happened in Carriacou and what started happening here as well: I decided, quite irrationally, that I wanted to give up writing and academia and become a Producer. I have not a clue what being a producer entails, I can't specify what the heck it is I want to produce, but it always just seems like such a vital, energetic profession, like you're a mover and shaker and you get things done and you have to be at your job by 5:30 a.m., dressed sharp with a blue tooth-thingy and a big cup of Starbucks and multiple people to fetch and carry out your orders. So by the beginning of last week, I was back to wanting to be a producer.<br /><br />It hasn't been just me, either. About two weeks ago, we're all sprawled in the gallery and Helen Dekker gets up with an incredible sense of purpose, puts on her sandals and asks me to do the buckles, puts on her hat and begins to walk down the front steps. When I ask, 'Hel, where're you going, babe?' She says, 'to a restaurant, to meet some friends.' This is followed the next day by her taking to her bed, blanket drawn up to her chin and announcing, 'Poor Helen Dekker. I have no friends.' Her daycare has righted that situation, and now she's with the big kids, about to get a uniform and having a great time.<br /><br />And so the students have all arrived. They've started their classes this week and are eager to explore Trinidad and I have so many activities planned for their spare time that hopefully they'll not have the time to be bored. They are quite a bright bunch, probably future doctors and engineers and lawyer and I'd hate to have to be on the telephone with one of their parents explaining why their child came back from Trinidad wanting to be a producer.<br /><br />Love from all of we.Victoria Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14539043289332177270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-75559682545096691802008-08-25T09:55:00.010-04:002008-08-25T10:58:00.974-04:00Pepper Sauce Taste Off, market editiona roundup of homemade sauce found at roadside stands/open air markets<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SLK6DLVqyNI/AAAAAAAAASE/XoIV8lHktFA/s1600-h/warrenstreet.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SLK6DLVqyNI/AAAAAAAAASE/XoIV8lHktFA/s200/warrenstreet.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238453880331356370" /></a> don't be fooled by the kind smile of the woman at this well-maintained stand (on <span style="font-weight:bold;">Warren Street</span>, about two blocks north of the East Main Road, <span style="font-weight:bold;">Tunapuna</span> - she also sells the areas sweetest mangoes, hands down) - the yellow sauce is the hottest I've ever had. Hot hot hot, burned through my food, my tongue, my lips - I drank water, milk, iced tea and chewed on ice chips for 15 minutes before it faded. HOT. I can't comment on the flavor or anything else, just HOT. <span style="font-weight:bold;">Score: 8.75</span> ('cause I like that)<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SLK8LHDFG2I/AAAAAAAAASM/FZ941xGnMAA/s1600-h/arimavendor.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SLK8LHDFG2I/AAAAAAAAASM/FZ941xGnMAA/s200/arimavendor.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238456215641856866" /></a> this stand outside the main market on <span style="font-weight:bold;">Hollis Ave</span> in <span style="font-weight:bold;">Arima</span> sells the closest thing to perfect yellow pepper sauce I've found. If I was going to be picky, and I can since this is my blog, the color's a little orange (probably pumpkin), and there could be more floaty bits of pepper inside. But the flavor's excellent, it's hot as sin without destroying the food, and it has a nice linger that burns just enough (i.e., doesn't force you to drown yourself under the kitchen tap). Good stuff, <span style="font-weight:bold;">Score: 9</span>Grey Thornberryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17195846363747591662noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-42782634471569524792008-08-23T09:11:00.007-04:002008-08-23T09:27:47.624-04:00the road to Maracas beach<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SLAMwyh_n-I/AAAAAAAAAR0/UIiCFMK9Rgs/s1600-h/maracas.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SLAMwyh_n-I/AAAAAAAAAR0/UIiCFMK9Rgs/s200/maracas.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5237700398969495522" /></a>the Saddle Road is an adventurous drive over the North Range Mtns, steep and winding, framed by rainforest on one side and precipitous drops with stunning views on the other (nerve-wracking or thrilling, depending on your tastes), but the reward at the end is more than worth it.Grey Thornberryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17195846363747591662noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-69519939930725227002008-08-21T21:04:00.009-04:002008-08-23T09:26:42.017-04:00the pothound<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SK4Vnw5werI/AAAAAAAAARU/hNLd4ms_STU/s1600-h/PotHound.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SK4Vnw5werI/AAAAAAAAARU/hNLd4ms_STU/s200/PotHound.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5237147189564701362" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">pot hound</span> –noun<span style="font-style:italic;">/pɒthaʊnd/(pottong)</span>: a local mongrel of hopelessly unidentifiable lineage, usually covered in mange, loves to roll around in frog and toad carcasses, found roaming in packs, sleeping under shady trees, stuck together post-coitus to the endless titillation of small village children, spends a large part of its life dodging traffic, has never tasted Kibbles'n'Bits or Purina and will eat anything leftover from anyone's pots . . . on rare occassion when actually claimed by a human, usually named <span style="font-weight:bold;">Spartacus</span>Grey Thornberryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17195846363747591662noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-74115523291097399812008-08-20T20:22:00.001-04:002008-08-20T20:32:02.957-04:00Fast FoodToday Bones came to visit. The best way to describe our relationship is to say that I do not remember a time in my life when I didn't know her. We're born three months apart and she is my oldest and dearest friend; my god, the memories we share. She came up for us to lime and catch up and for her two daughters to use the pool on by far the worse pool day of the entire trip. The rain was hard and relentless with cracking thunder and faulty flashlight lightening (but I love this rainy season rain more than the sweetest lullaby). Not pool weather. So we decided to go to the mall, and we decided to get something to eat. Rhonda's older daughter went for bbq, the younger got a sub, and I got Helen some lo mein (in Trinidad lo mein is good for toddlers). Bones and I decide to get burgers. We had two options, Burger King and the local joint Beefeaters. For two reasons, I decide we getting Beefeaters: 1. You crazy! You think I come all the way Trinidad to eat Burger King. I don't even eat that nastiness in New York, far less to come and eat it home. And 2. Well Beefeaters is the local joint, right, and everybody in Trindad line up at Burger King so let me patronize the homegrown business. (And 3. The cool gin connection.) <br /><br />So Bones' rounding up the girls and I place our order, large fries to share and two burgers with cheese. When I ask what kind of cheese, someone starts scrambling to find out and when I realise there's one cheese choice, I say don't worry about it then. I'll eat Beefeater's cheese. And then I wait. After about ten minutes I go over to check on Helen in her pink tutu and ruby shoes. She is covered in noodles, but she's eating and happy. The other girls are tucking in and Bones is nibbling from everybody's plate. Food not ready yet, she asks? Nuh uh, it's not like Burger King, you know, fresh meat. She eats one of her daughter's fries and I wander back to the counter. Ten more minutes pass. I see Toni packing a piece of bbq into her fries box to take and Helen pulling noodles out of her tutu. After five more minutes, a strange man with a weak Trini accent starts asking, 'Where is my food? All I want is a burger and fries. Where is my food, please?' He looks around for support. I ask the woman next to me if she ordered before me. She's number 82 and I'm 80. Quietly, unlike the man, I ask the cashier where's my order. She goes behind and comes back to say 'it comin' now.'<br /><br />A digression here for the Trini definition of "now" and its close relation "just now". You're doomed when you hear any these words in connection to you and waiting. You might as well have a drink or read something, or take up juggling. "Just now" can mean anything from a few minutes to a few days, depending on the situation at hand. Someone will tell you they coming just now and then go and take a nap or finish plaiting a child's head, or weed a patch of land. And if you complain, well they won't understand why you're so vex - I tell you "just now!". (It's only "now-now" that offers any reassurance that action is nigh.) Grey should write a bit about asking for directions and being told to go 'just so.'<br /><br />By now the man at the other end of the counter is losing it for real. 'But what is this? I can't understand. Is only a burger and some french fries I order. A burger and fries. Is not like I getting ribs or lamb, is a burger and fries. Come on, please make number 85.' Oh, buddy. He looks around again and I give him a sympathetic face. Number 82 next to me whispers, 'but why he have to get on so? Is not wait everybody waiting.' I look at this foreign person. I have been waiting for 30 minutes for two burgers and some damn fries. Burger King has served one million in the time I've been waiting. Helen is stuffing noodles up her nose and I am hungry. To everyone behind the counter I say, loudly,: 'But this is beyond ridiculous, where's my food? Look at the time on my receipt. I ordered 35 minutes ago. This is fast food. Fast food. Where is my food? I'm hungry. Where is my food, Miss Lady?' The cooks, instead of looking after my order are looking at me from the kitchen. I put both hands up and say, 'What? Where is my food?' Miss Lady asks someone a question and says to me: 'Your burgers are on the grill now.'<br /><br />Strangling, dying, hungry, I reel over to our table for Bones to give me to go ahead to cancel this joke and go get some Burger King. But Bones is as cool as ever. 'Nah man,' she all but drawwwls, 'we wait so long already, I'm sure it coming now.' I back away from her very slowly, back to the counter. Number 85 comes to stand next to me and wants to know where I'm visiting from and for how long. I tell him five months and he laughs. Turns out he's visiting from Canada for 10 days and says he could NEVER, EVER not in a million years sister, live here. He faces the counter again, 'Nevah! Whe mih food? Ah hungry. Gimme mih burger and mih chips, please.' <br /><br />My order comes and I put my empty cup on the counter and tell Miss Lady to give me a refill because I drank all my mauby while I waited 39 minutes for a fast burger and fries. She fills it without complaint, and as I'm collecting my tray to go, 85 gets his burger and fries and we part ways.<br /><br />Love from all of we.Victoria Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14539043289332177270noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-10656275853984797462008-08-20T20:14:00.003-04:002008-08-21T21:35:00.155-04:00the pause that refreshes<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SKyzx5POEiI/AAAAAAAAARE/kQO-WsiZLRw/s1600-h/coconutvendor.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SKyzx5POEiI/AAAAAAAAARE/kQO-WsiZLRw/s200/coconutvendor.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5236758136484663842" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SKyzx0Pc3QI/AAAAAAAAARM/lB0zLyiizP4/s1600-h/coconutwater.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SKyzx0Pc3QI/AAAAAAAAARM/lB0zLyiizP4/s200/coconutwater.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5236758135143456002" /></a>nothing cuts through the stifling misery of being strapped in a baby seat on a 90°F+ day, like a quick dose of coconut waterGrey Thornberryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17195846363747591662noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-20658989521531029062008-08-19T08:25:00.006-04:002008-08-20T20:20:47.080-04:00Gracy with a YWhen Grey set up the blog, I asked him to spell my name GRACY, not graci from my email account or Gracie, whom I've never been. The Y ending harks back to how I spelled my nickname as a child (it's the familiar for Gracelyn, my middle name) and it's how I'm mostly known at home. I will admit though, that I did go through a voluntary respelling phase somewhere in my early twenties and then I got stuck with the teeny I ending, but like Annie says about so many things, you can always press undo. So, Gracy then.<br /><br />So what does it feel like to be home? On the one hand we've removed our Brooklyn selves intact to a new location, but it's much more than the physical shifting, of course. I left Trinidad at sixteen and I'm living here for the first time as an adult, a married woman with a child and a job (oh, so I've resigned my lectureship at LaGuardia and doing some work at University of the West Indies with a group of visiting students, and trying to sneak some progress on the dissertation). I'm not in the countryside where I grew up, so even now after having lived overseas for eighteen years, there's a bit of the country girl come to town in this experience - what, Trinidad have fancy malls, and look at how tall this building is, and we have a crime-fighting blimp, and crime!<br /><br />Then there's negotiating this experience with my family. My mother, who has come to stay with us many times in Brooklyn is, not surprisingly, the most adjusted to my adult status. The surprise has come from my second oldest sister (by 6 years) who has resolutely tried to remind me of who I used to be or maybe who she last knew me as. So for example when I tried to share the joke with her of our mother trying to get me to teach Helen to pray (and that is a good joke), she said, 'huh, I remember that just before you went away you were about to become a born again Christian.' This by the way is true(and I also had a jerri curl), but I think besides the point. From her have come constant reminders of what I was and look who I'm pretending to be now. She chooses to insist that the past is the valid image and right now we're in the middle of an 'I'm not ringing you first' standoff. Ridiculous, but I'm not ringing her first.<br /><br />But then again maybe I am being a bit unfair, because I want so much of what I remember of my childhood to have stood still. We used to call a quarter a bob, our aunts 'tanty,' godmothers 'nenny,' stop whatever we were doing if the national anthem came on and stand at attention, not be afraid to go outside after dark, a dollar used to be plenty money. All of that has changed now and top on the lists of things my nieces wanted me to bring them were Mp3 players, a PSP portable, and denim. This modernity unsettles me. I want them to wear school uniforms and ribbons in their hair and have impeccable manners. I want to call unfamiliar old ladies tanty and get a smile and a bob for it. I want to go for a moonlit walk when current goes without thinking I need pepper spray. I want the dead from these eighteen years past to walk again, and I want all of this to neatly coexist with all that I am right now.<br /><br />Maybe I should ring my sister, eh?<br /><br />Love from all of we.Victoria Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14539043289332177270noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-9801002705347317912008-08-15T08:18:00.011-04:002008-08-23T10:47:20.408-04:00Pepper Sauce taste offthe <span style="font-weight:bold;">great Pepper Sauce taste off</span> starts here. Scores from 1 to 10, taking into account flavor, heat, and how long that lovely painful burning stays on the tongue after you've eaten. Results are arbitrary and personal, I'm making this stuff up as I go along, people.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SKV1GS8uvaI/AAAAAAAAAPw/rZ6OmIRZURo/s1600-h/JackiesParamin.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SKV1GS8uvaI/AAAAAAAAAPw/rZ6OmIRZURo/s200/JackiesParamin.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5234718892914294178" /></a>First up, <span style="font-weight:bold;">Jackie's Original Paramin Pepper Sauce</span> (avail in most local groceries). good yellow mustard color, plenty of floating bits of hot pepper, looked promising. Unfortunately it has no bite, no lingering burn at all - I kept adding more to my eggs waiting for it to kick in, but nothing. At least it wasn't sweet, but too mild to be called true Pepper Sauce. <span style="font-weight:bold;">SCORE: 3.5</span><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SKV2mO6PJ8I/AAAAAAAAAP4/yHdD_b7bx7U/s1600-h/muddaNlaw.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SKV2mO6PJ8I/AAAAAAAAAP4/yHdD_b7bx7U/s200/muddaNlaw.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5234720541097535426" /></a>Next up, <span style="font-weight:bold;">D'original Mudda'n'Law Chunky Pepper Sauce</span> (harder to find, but in some mainstream groceries) this one delivers, full of chunky pepper floating in a sharp vinegar base, put a little of this on anything and you'll know it's there right away! Great flavor and masochistically satisfying burn, intense at the beginning and lingering on. My only complaint is the base is a bit thin, it's more like sprinkling very spicy water on your food rather than a sauce (mother-in-law itself is a local term for any homemade pepper sauce). <span style="font-weight:bold;">SCORE: 8</span><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SKV4pegqbPI/AAAAAAAAAQA/IvaDQflJjMo/s1600-h/WestIndianHome.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SKV4pegqbPI/AAAAAAAAAQA/IvaDQflJjMo/s200/WestIndianHome.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5234722795848101106" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SKV4zkYkDQI/AAAAAAAAAQI/ErVHYY3OS2A/s1600-h/WestIndianHome_detail.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SKV4zkYkDQI/AAAAAAAAAQI/ErVHYY3OS2A/s200/WestIndianHome_detail.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5234722969223433474" /></a>and last, for this round, is <span style="font-weight:bold;">West Indian Home Hot Sauce</span> (avail in smaller local shops) this one wins big points for color and semi-napalm consistency, pours out great on the plate and really packs a kick, like a good yellow sauce should. The pumpkin water gives it a slight tang, but not too much to sweeten it or throw off the burn. Good stuff. It carries a <span style="font-style:italic;">Jesus is Lord</span> label above the ingredients, however he couldn't be reached for comment <span style="font-weight:bold;">SCORE: 7.5</span><br /><br />more to come as we find 'emGrey Thornberryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17195846363747591662noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848726055140240635.post-45263484536959202192008-08-14T18:45:00.007-04:002008-08-15T09:02:07.245-04:00the crimefighting blimp<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SKS1pMvIFUI/AAAAAAAAAPY/sBgvlx2Oayw/s1600-h/thegreatblimp.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8bcnm7cd7OA/SKS1pMvIFUI/AAAAAAAAAPY/sBgvlx2Oayw/s200/thegreatblimp.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5234508386309510466" /></a>the great trinidad "crimefighting" blimp makes its rounds. It came on the scene maybe two years ago, and was touted as a new force in crimefighting; the opposition party at the time challenged it, demanding to know what powers the mysterious blimp has. In true Trini fashion, the powers-that-be responded "If we told you what it can do, we'd be arming the criminals with vital information."<br />And so it remains an enigma, not so silently circling the island, ever watchful. Criminals cower, and good citizens sleep peacefully.Grey Thornberryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17195846363747591662noreply@blogger.com1